How Aquarius Makes Enemies
69Paris Hilton, Aquarian, Wants Respect
You'll Meet Very Few Aquarians -- Thank God
It is not unusual for Aquarians to go to the workplace, ignore their job, and work on their novel or new invention. Co-workers will soon yearn to give Aquarius a beating or a boot out the door. Or like Sarah Palin, Aquarians will simply abandon the job. Aquarius hates the whole idea of working for others, and wants short hours or none. They work best when they create their own jobs, like Oprah Winfrey or Simpsons animator Matt Groening. They are, by nature, allergic to what's normal, so if you are normal, you won't see them in person much. Aquarius is also the least common zodiac sign.
Many Aquarians start out with tremendous potential or as glittering young people like Princess Stephanie and Paris Hilton. Declaring they "have to be themselves," negative Aquarians then make a string of poor choices and in defending them finally lose respect. Because of their faults, the people who count are cold to them, and Aquarians believe this is because others are incapable of appreciating the Aquarius as a prophet and genius. Aquarians are proud rule-breakers. This can be good: Aquarian Abraham Lincoln decided to free the slaves (in part so the men could join his army). Lesser Aquarians simply ignore rules and common sense and if caught in a sticky wicket, like Paris Hilton with her sex tape, will give a speech about the violation of their rights.
A negative Aquarius runs from problems and denies making mistakes except to a few very close friends and intimates, who have the rare privilege of seeing past Aquarius' self-absorption and stubbornness into Aquarius's well-meaning heart. Yet Aquarius eagerly points out others' mistakes and imperfections. Aquarius gets extremely attached or addicted to the few who can break through their shell and get close. The "addicted" Aquarian will dismantle his or her whole life and personality to keep the relationship going, lacking the nerve to break it off. Although their weird ways can be endearing, two Aquarian traits alienate lovers. First, they feel entitled to all the affairs they want. How can Aquarians know whether you are "the one" if they don't sample all the rest? Second, they overthink, analyzing a lover's every word and action, worrying, consulting psychics and horoscopes; everything but asking outright, "Where is this relationship going? Is it working for you?" If an Aquarius can do that, it is a sign of maturity. It rarely happens.
Aquarius gets used to seeing angry people, from parents on up, so he or she is always on the defensive and believes any criticism is unfair. Unless he or she has learned the hard way, he or she has no clue that other people shouldn't be interrupted and that they have feelings. Even the most pathetic Aquarius or Aquarius Moon will bluntly tell you what your problem is and how to fix it. The scary thing is that they are often right. Astrologically at least, they are the Bringers of Knowledge to Mankind. For Aquarians, especially those on the borderline of being negative Aquarians, the best bet in life is not love or career but service.
Aquarius Negative Avatars: Rick James (Feb. 1), Sarah Palin (Feb. 11), Paris Hilton (Feb. 17)
Sylvia Sky, experienced astrologer, writes about occult matters and reviews horoscope and psychic sites for quality and accuracy. Read How Sagittarius Makes Enemies. Copyright 2011 by Sylvia Sky.
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Of course there are exceptions. A person is more than his or her sun sign. What Aquarius generally wants is to work on his or her own projects. For those, they have any amount of energy, and like Oprah can build empires with it.
I am an aquarian, born in January, and very little of what you wrote fits me, guess I am the exception. Good article enjoyed reading it
SylviaSky, that makes sense - this Aquarius I know does like their own projects! Good point.
It will only fit you if you have enemies!
I loved reading this Hub! You hit the nail on it's head! I am an Aquarius and this article made me giggle to myself because it is so true of my character. Thanks :)
This one invited introspection, Ms. Sylvia, and much to my chagrin I found several of my less attractive attributes listed. Yikes! Thanks for posting this, voted up, useful and interesting.
Hillbilly Zen, I'm an Aquarius so I know!
I think your hub may be about february aquarians or aquarians who are driven by whatever negative experiences they have encountered. Let me start off by saying True Aquarians aren't really interested in "friends". You are either popular or not and most of the time being popular puts you in the bracket of having alot of friends when in all essence you just know alot of people. If you are a popular aquarian, that's all it is. Aquarians hold those that we consider true friends and family close. Given that we are the way we are, just like any other sign, there are certain distinct behaviors that come with the territory. Second! What exactly is "normal" what everyone else is doing and have no idea why they are doing it and just because you don't want to do it, is bored by it or think it is dumb you're not normal?!?!? Are you serious. To seal my comment maybe all that you have written stems from your experience and behaviors as an aquarian. Expressing such statements from your stand point, view and experience isn't fair neither does it broaden the scope of how we make enemies as well as who "we are". If the truth be told there are so many other ways to effortlessly make enemies whether your sign is aquarius or not. Last but not least if anyone is considering themself genius, they are desperate for attention, power and have a strong need to feel important
Thank you for your thoughtful comments. Your point about friends is frequently found in other personality assessments of Aquarians. Aquarians get bored by routine and by what everybody else buys and does and Aquarius thinks that is great but other people don't think it is normal, asking, Why aren't you married? or Why don't you own a tv? Or Why don't you get a steady job? The questions and criticism just prove to Aquarius that normal means conformist and mediocre. And to disagree with you on one point, Aquarius is just fine secretly believing in his or her own genius and doesn't need power or attention, just the self-satisfaction that enemies hate.
i honestly dont think sarah palin is a negative aquarian.
paris hilton is frowned upon cause she was born into wealth and people are disappointed in her cause she didnt do anything with the wealth. why is it our problem what she does with her inheritance? it's iike people want to put down others because they are aquarians and wealthy? are aquarians suppose to be the saviour of the world or something if they're not born with a purpose? barbara hutton was a socialite, wealthy and did nothing with her life either, and this goes wth other socialites, but no one ragged on them as much as they do if she happened to be an aquarian.
i think honestly that people put too much emphasis on aquarians to help heal the world or something but so what? can't they jsut be normal people like everyone else?
This fits me and my wife to the maximum. She would have her mouth wide open if she saw this article. Recently I was fired from my 5year well paid business plan because I didn't want to put down my super bowl planner and finish my daily task, it seems silly but I am guilty of this. My wife was laid off because of her poor attention skills top her work. Aquarius we need a change up haha
Lol Didn't realize I initially responded to this hub but I am writing to agree with aquarian lady who said that folk expect that aquarians should save the world and be humAnitarians when in all essence some aQuarians don't to, and most folk are seeking other offers. aquarians dont feel the need to be taken advantage of just because someone believes we possess something worth while "to entertain". CiaO
i feel a little sad about this article because it's kind of true. there's that "i will do it my way or screw the eff off" atttitude, which is very rebellious towards society itself. just yesterday, friday 13th, i had made quite a few enemies just because i spoke my mind, ever so bluntly and even DARED to question authority. lol. and on top of that, those who defended those in authority, got a glare and i had to bite my tongue to keep from blasting them one of my infamous quick death-words (fancying it up but it just means i would have made that girl cry) i interrupted in class, at work, during social moments with friends and acquiantances but i stood my ground. sure, i apologized because i realised that people are sensitive and i didnt want to be looked at as a cold hearted person, and people do have feelings. i wouldnt want that happening to me, no matter if i KNew i was right. and in the end, my argument was sadly correct. even though, it really brought out alot of hurt. i really am glad there's so few of us aquas compared to the rest of the zodiac. we're not very nice when we want to be, meaning we will tell you straight out the truth about things that we seem to just understand. sometimes it is better to remain ignorant and do what everyone wants you to be.... a little.
jan I am confused and disapointed with your post. what is it that you are trying to say? Anyone that hates themselves and suggest to others that it's better to remain ignorant has serious issues. Are you really an aquarian? My aquarian instincts tell me you aren't and that you probably hate someone that is an aquarius.
to the poster above. yeah i am an aquarius and it's more like, you hate yourself for hurting other people through just the simple fact of knowledge. if someone is ignorant, you can go through life happy. ignorance is BLISS. so maybe you just dont understand, and that's fine. and funnily your instincts are incorrect. but that's ok too because the sun sign is only one part of your chart if you truly believe in astrology.
lol @ reeltaulk. :)
i dont hate myself. i hate the part of me that acts so defiant for no reason than to act defiant and causes pain to other people. are you that emotional-less to actually act so self centered that the message was that it's understandable WHY ignorance is bliss. have you not heard of the term? if you go around hurting people, with your actions, what good is it to your soul journey? maybe negative aquas are really emotional-less and self centered and dont care about other people. One astrologer said that there are aquas who actually ignore wheel-chair people even if the handicapped person is in trouble. how disgusting. i was appalled and disgusted at that offensive remark about some aquas. so maybe all signs do that if they are negative, but it sure gives astrologers more fire to the pan to say how aquas lack emotions for other people in the world. that's truly disgusting, and this is probably why aquas are ready to go into pisces in the next incarnation. to feel all those emotions and get lost in it. supposedly we've traveled all the soul signs from aries, being no.1 all the way now to this sign. last stop: pisces. get ready, aquas, you're in for an ocean of pain there.
Ignorance is bliss and do whatever everyone wants you too has two different meanings. If you hate something about yourself..... correct it, plain and simple.....there are negatives in everyone regardless of what sign they are. btw I don't buy into what anyone says about me or "my sign"...they don't know me!
Jan and reeltaulk, your discussion is getting a bit edgy. You can agree to disagree.
MarloByDesign Level 4 Commenter 5 months ago
I know an Aquarian who works very hard - there may be exceptions to your Hub. What do you think?